I’ve been where you are
Going through a breakup or divorce can leave you feeling completely lost. You’ve held everything together for so long – for your kids, your job, your friends – but inside, you’re tired, stuck, and wondering if things will ever feel normal again.
Maybe you’ve tried therapy, leaned on friends, read the books – but you still feel like you’re going in circles.
You want to feel more like yourself again – confident, clear, and hopeful about the future.
That’s where working with a divorce coach in the UK can make all the difference.
What makes me different as a divorce coach in the UK
Below, I’m sharing what makes coaching with me different. And how I help you move from surviving to truly thriving after divorce.
This isn’t about vague positivity or platitudes. It’s about real tools, deep support, and a proven framework that works.
If you’re not sure what to look for, here’s how to choose the right divorce coach for you
1. I get It – and I’ll always lead with empathy
I’ve been where you are. I understand how traumatic a breakup can feel.
I understand the challenges you’re facing and I know the steps you need to take to rebuild your life.
You won’t need to explain everything from scratch. You’ll feel understood from the start.
2. I show you what’s possible
I don’t just understand where you are – I show you what’s possible.
I’ve created a life I love after divorce – even though I didn’t think that was possible at the time.
That means I bring something important into our work – perspective.
You’ll start to see that this isn’t the end of your story. It can be the start of something better than you expected.
3. I coach beyond just divorce
You’re not just dealing with a breakup.
You might be questioning your career, your identity, your confidence or your future.
I have a breadth and depth of experience and it’s why I can coach beyond the divorce itself.
We work on whatever comes up for you – whether that’s:
- career direction
- relationship patterns
- people pleasing
- confidence and self-worth
- or figuring out what you actually want next
4. My work is grounded in Psychology and real results
I’m an accredited divorce coach in the UK. I use specific tools and techniques that support you through this specific stage of life.
I also bring wider training including Positive Psychology – the science of happiness – alongside life and business coaching.
Personal development is a huge passion of mine. I’m always learning so I can support you better and help you get faster results.
5. I use a proven framework that retrains your thinking
I’ve developed my own framework: SPARK.
It helps you move forward in a structured, practical way – not just emotionally, but in how you think and make decisions.
You may have already tried the usual distraction tactics like staying busy or filling your diary – but they’re not working.
That’s because this isn’t about distraction.
We focus on rewiring your thinking, breaking the emotional loops that keep you stuck in the past, and helping you move forward with focus and energy.
6. I will challenge you – with compassion and purpose
I won’t just agree with you or tell you what you want to hear. That doesn’t create change.
I will challenge you with compassion and with your best interests at heart.
Because that’s what creates real change and moves you forward.
7. This work is deep – but it can also feel good
You might not expect this – but coaching can actually feel good.
We don’t stay stuck in the past or keep replaying what’s happened.
Instead we focus on the future.
On what brings you joy, confidence, and a sense of direction.
That shift alone can feel like a huge relief. And it can actually be exciting.
8. We focus on results – quickly
Coaching with me is fast paced and future focused. You won’t stay stuck in analysis or over thinking.
We focus on helping you:
- feel back in control
- get clear on what you want
- and take the steps to move forward
You’ll always know what comes next.
9. You’ll feel safe, seen, and supported
I’m calm and approachable and this is a space where you can be honest.
Clients often tell me things they’ve never said out loud to anyone before. And they do that because they feel safe and know that I won’t judge them.
You’ll feel able to talk openly – and supported as you move forward.
10. You’re working with someone who’s experienced and healed
I’ve been coaching exclusively in this area for over 6 years, and I know what actually creates change.
You’re working with one of the first Accredited divorce coaches in the UK. I bring experience, psychological insight and practical tools that create lasting results.
My own divorce was over 20 years ago, and I’m fully through it. That means your sessions stay focused entirely on you – not my story.
Ready to take the first step?
If you’re looking for a divorce coach in the UK and want to feel more in control of your next chapter, I’d love to talk.
If you’re still deciding, you can also read my blog on how to choose the right divorce coach for you.
